FOR DRIVEN, SUCCESSFUL OVER ACHIEVING WOMEN

BREAK FREE
FROM OVERING™

The outdated default of overthinking, overachieving, overpreparing, overaccommodating, overcontrolling…

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LET'S BE REAL FOR A MOMENT HERE

You've built a life you're proud of

Success, responsibility, meaningful relationships.
But it doesn’t feel the way you thought it would by now.

You’re still overthinking, overpreparing, overdelivering, and overgiving, pushing past your limits to hold it all together. You’ve been in “perform mode” for so long, it feels automatic. But lately, something’s shifting.

You’ve outgrown the old way. And you know it.

It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing it differently.
Ready to see what that could look like for you?

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IT'S NOT ABOUT DOING MORE. IT'S ABOUT

Doing things differently

You’ve mastered success.
The habits, the growth, the grit.
You’ve built what most people admire...and made it look easy. But under the surface, you’re still running on overdrive.

OVERTHINKING.
OVERDELIVERING.
OVERPREPARING.
OVERACCOMODATING.

Always scanning for what needs managing, fixing, or proving. And beneath it all, one question keeps surfacing: Why does it still feel this hard?

This is Overing™

What began as a high-functioning strategy has become a pattern driven by an unconscious belief that your worth, safety, or belonging depends on it to be okay.

Because somewhere along the way, striving became safety. Effort became enoughness. And now-even when life is good-you can’t fully feel it.

Overing™ is a cycle: praised on the outside, depleting on the inside. It gets results, but costs presence. It earns respect, but erodes ease. It keeps you performing, but distances you from yourself.

HOW WE DO IT

DONE OVERING

We bring you out of autopilot and into intentional action- unmasking the Overing™ reflex, rewriting the rules behind it, and anchoring real change so self‑trust becomes your new default.

Once you learn to spot it, shift it, and lead from within, the reflex that once kept you over‑functioning becomes the launchpad for who you were always meant to be.

UNMASK THE

Pattern

Recognize the reflex.
Disrupt the autopilot.

Identify how Overing™ shows up in your decisions, energy, and actions, and uncover the outdated beliefs and protective strategies hiding underneath.

REWRITE THE

Rules

Retire the old playbook.
Replace it with your own.

Discover the stories and standards that have fuelled your Overing™, and build new, self‑sourced rules rooted in who you’re becoming.

GROWTH TAKES

Root

Shift from performing
to being.

Through mindset shifts, new behaviors, self‑led choices, and intentional support, you redefine how you live, lead, relate, and take space, fully, and without apology.
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I'M HEATHER MOSS

Lawyer, coach, and creator of Done Overing™

I help high-achieving women shift the internal identity behind their personal and professional success, so it finally feels like theirs.

For years decades, I was the one who always had it together. Behind the scenes? I was overfunctioning, overthinking, and overproving, believing if I did enough, I’d finally feel enough.

What looked like ambition was really a safety reflex. Now, I help women unhook from that pattern, trust themselves deeply, and lead from clarity, not performance.

Because the real work isn’t doing more.
It’s finally being more of who you already are.

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