HEATHER MOSS

Lawyer, coach, and creator of Done Overing™

You know that feeling: on paper it all looks perfect

success, achievement, stability

but still something doesn’t land. I’ve been there.

I’m Heather Moss: attorney turned identity‑coach and the creator of Done Overing™.
For years I played the role of “strong, capable, always together”-in law, in compliance, in business, in family. Yet behind the scenes I was overthinking, overpreparing, overdelivering, and never feeling at ease.

What I thought was ambition was actually a survival reflex. I believed that if I just did more, I’d finally feel secure, seen, and safe.
Then I discovered the truth: I was operating on Overing™- the hidden loop of overthinking, overfunctioning, overdelivering that kept me polished on the outside, disconnected on the inside.

That moment changed everything. I immersed myself in transformational identity work and women‑centered leadership training and developed a new way forward.

Today, I walk alongside high‑achieving women ready to move from success that looks good, to a life that truly feels like theirs.
No more proving. No more perfection. No more shrinking.

The outcome?
A life you don’t just maintain. A life you finally belong to.

HOW WE DO IT

DONE OVERING

We bring you out of autopilot and into intentional action- unmasking the Overing™ reflex, rewriting the rules behind it, and anchoring real change so self‑trust becomes your new default.

Once you learn to spot it, shift it, and lead from within, the reflex that once kept you over‑functioning becomes the launchpad for who you were always meant to be.

UNMASK THE

Pattern

Recognize the reflex.
Disrupt the autopilot.

Identify how Overing™ shows up in your decisions, energy, and actions, and uncover the outdated beliefs and protective strategies hiding underneath.

REWRITE THE

Rules

Retire the old playbook.
Replace it with your own.

Discover the stories and standards that have fuelled your Overing™, and build new, self‑sourced rules rooted in who you’re becoming.

GROWTH TAKES

Root

Shift from performing
to being.

Through mindset shifts, new behaviors, self‑led choices, and intentional support, you redefine how you live, lead, relate, and take space, fully, and without apology.